From the comments section:
So when you see that a guy shows up looking groomed and wearing non-elastic pants, do you immediately ask him out? Yeah, I know this entry is humorous, but I think it’s also indicative of what needs changing: girls should not assume that boys are automatically going to understand their signals. Furthermore, it’s 2009. If you dig a dude, ask him out your damn self. -Concerned Reader
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Julia Allison, is that you?
Guys, what do you think? Should we be asking you out? If you have a good story, share it here!
-KRISTEN